How To Win Your Ex Back Using The No Contact Rule

By Jason · Friday, August 14th, 2009 · No Comments »

The no contact rule is one of the best ways how to win your ex back. Let me first say though, this is NOT my preferred method when helping people win there ex back. Why? Well, this method requires a little bit of time in order for it to work effectively.

If you’re looking for the fastest possible way how to win your ex back, I suggest downloading a copy of Second Chance Romance, where I talk about faster and more effective methods.

Now, onto “The No Contact Rule”…

It’s pretty simple… basically after the breakup… you do NOTHING. I know that may sound a little surprising, so let me explain.

Right after the breakup, emotions are running wild and tension is at an all time high.  This means, anything you say or do, regardless of your intentions, will most likely just make the situation worse than it already is.

Here’s The Two BIGGEST Mistakes The “No Contact Rule” Will Prevent You From Making:

1. Drunk Dialing – This is a major killer. Usually what will happen is, you go out for a couple drinks to try an “ease” the pain of the breakup. But you soon find out that it’s not making you feel better, so you decide  to randomly start calling your ex. As you can imagine, this phone call turns out to be absolutely disastrous 99% of the time.

2. Text Message Terrorism – At this day in age, texting has become extremely popular… and generally what will happen is, you go into “Panic Mode” after the breakup and try to stop them from leaving. So, you pick up the cell phone and start blasting text after text to try and save your relationship… but all this really does is drive your ex insane and push them further away.

So to prevent these mistakes, use the no contact rule to give each other time to cool down.  Problem though, is most people don’t really know how long to go about with no contact. Obviously you don’t want to jump the gun to soon because the tension will still be high, but you also don’t want to wait to long, because then they could potentially find someone new or just simply move on from you. So generally, I would say AT LEAST 2 weeks, but no more than 2 months.

Again, this method WORKS, but if you’re looking for a faster approach to winning your ex back, I would highly suggest you download Second Chance Romance right now. It’s very inexpensive and I’m sure you’ll agree it’s worth every penny… and if it’s not… I’ll go ahead and give you a FULL refund. Cool?

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How To Win Your Ex Girlfriend Back – The First Step

By Jason · Wednesday, August 12th, 2009 · 3 Comments »

Women have a completely different reason for leaving a relationship than men do.  They will put up with a ton of crap and not even think about leaving a relationship as long as they feel ONE PRIMARY EMOTION.

And if they feel this one emotion…they are incredibly loyal! A rich and handsome multi-millionaire can pay them a great compliment…and of course they will be flattered…but they are not about to leave a man they love that makes them FEEL APPRECIATED.

Women want, need and crave APPRECIATION.

The most common remark and underlying message when women were asked in studies and polls on why they left a man was…

“He never appreciated anything I did for him!”

This means, when a woman stops feeling appreciated… your relationship is in BIG trouble.

A woman will not stay in a relationship if she feels that you do not appreciate her.

This is one of the underlying reasons why infidelity is so devastating to a woman…if you have had an affair…they immediately feel that YOU have ZERO appreciation for them…

To put it in simple terms, your girl is much more likely to fall prey to another man who comes in and shows her even the tiniest bit of appreciation.

If a woman has left you…your very first steps are to start letting her know that you APPRECIATE her.

But wait! Here’s a little WARNING…

Women seem to have a built in LIE DETECTOR and if you try to BS them, they WILL catch on! And if you do not do it correctly, you’re going to do more damage than you will good.

Also, a major mistake men make when trying to show their appreciation, is not understanding that men and women have VERY DIFFERENT WAYS OF KEEPING SCORE.

Basically, if you want to know how to win your ex girlfriend back

You have to let her know that you appreciated and STILL DO  appreciate her…

Here’s a little problem though… you can not just simply “tell her”. You have to know HER scoring system and how SHE keeps score.

These are actually really easy things to learn.

…And one of the absolutely best guides you will find on getting your girl back by showing and proving to her how much you appreciate her…is called Second Chance Romance.

In fact, you can have it right now and get started today because it is set up as an INSTANT DOWNLOAD. Go grab your copy of Second Chance Romance right now and it will be the best money you ever spend. Why? Because IT WORKS…PERIOD!

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How To Win Your Ex Boyfriend Back – The First Step

By Jason · Saturday, July 4th, 2009 · 3 Comments »

Okay, so you recently broke up with your boyfriend or husband right? Well, the first step is to understand WHY he left. There’s a good chance you have NO CLUE why he really left you, so let me explain.

Generally, men will give SEVERAL completely different reasons for leaving the relationship. Sometimes the reasons are so different it almost seems as if there trying to confuse you on purpose.

But based on a large number of relationship polls, it become quite obvious that men will leave a relationship when they stop feeling ADMIRED…

Men want to feel ADMIRED! When they stop feeling admired this is a major attack on not only their self esteem, but calls their “manhood” into question. At first, you may think that may seem all too “simple”… but when you actually give it some thought… you will start to realize just how TRUE it really is.

To a man:

HAPPY WOMAN = ADMIRATION

THIS IS WHY thousands of men who were polled on the recurring reasons why they left, said the following statement:

“No matter what I did…I couldn’t make her happy anymore.”

This is ALSO the #1 reason why a man will CHEAT. While we watch movie after movie that seems to portray a man going after a “prettier” woman…this is far from the truth why a man cheats…

If a man does not feel admired in the relationship he is in…when another woman comes along and makes him FEEL ADMIRED…then that relationship is at risk of infidelity… and it makes sense too when you think about it.

A smiley, happy and giggly coworker that floods him with compliments whenever he walks in the room… is an incredible ADMIRATION builder and turn on for a man…that does NOT feel admired at home.

This has much LESS affect…and is NOT a threat when a man feels IS admired at home.

It may be “nice”…like when a woman receives a compliment from another man…but is happy with her partner.

So you may be wondering if you have to go around like a giggly school girl to get your man back.

NO, NOT AT ALL!

But there is one thing that most women do unintentionally that absolutely destroys a mans sense of admiration… and that is NAGGING.

Does that mean you can’t express your feelings about what you want? Of course not, you just have to do is in a more effective way.

So what’s the secret on how to win your ex boyfriend back?

You start making him feel admired again

This is very easy to do once you learn a few skills and If you are serious about getting your man back, I want you to go grab this book right now…

It’s called Second Chance Romance and it will show you exactly what you need to do to make your man feel admired again…and at the SAME TIME…keep your dignity and get what you want and need from your relationship.

It is very inexpensive…but more importantly Second Chance Romance is surprisingly effective…and you will be amazed at how well it really works…

There is also a “Win Your Ex Back or Get Your Money Back” guarantee so you literally have nothing to lose.

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