How To Win Your Ex Back Using The No Contact Rule

By Jason · Friday, August 14th, 2009

The no contact rule is one of the best ways how to win your ex back. Let me first say though, this is NOT my preferred method when helping people win there ex back. Why? Well, this method requires a little bit of time in order for it to work effectively.

If you’re looking for the fastest possible way how to win your ex back, I suggest downloading a copy of Second Chance Romance, where I talk about faster and more effective methods.

Now, onto “The No Contact Rule”…

It’s pretty simple… basically after the breakup… you do NOTHING. I know that may sound a little surprising, so let me explain.

Right after the breakup, emotions are running wild and tension is at an all time high.  This means, anything you say or do, regardless of your intentions, will most likely just make the situation worse than it already is.

Here’s The Two BIGGEST Mistakes The “No Contact Rule” Will Prevent You From Making:

1. Drunk Dialing – This is a major killer. Usually what will happen is, you go out for a couple drinks to try an “ease” the pain of the breakup. But you soon find out that it’s not making you feel better, so you decide  to randomly start calling your ex. As you can imagine, this phone call turns out to be absolutely disastrous 99% of the time.

2. Text Message Terrorism – At this day in age, texting has become extremely popular… and generally what will happen is, you go into “Panic Mode” after the breakup and try to stop them from leaving. So, you pick up the cell phone and start blasting text after text to try and save your relationship… but all this really does is drive your ex insane and push them further away.

So to prevent these mistakes, use the no contact rule to give each other time to cool down.  Problem though, is most people don’t really know how long to go about with no contact. Obviously you don’t want to jump the gun to soon because the tension will still be high, but you also don’t want to wait to long, because then they could potentially find someone new or just simply move on from you. So generally, I would say AT LEAST 2 weeks, but no more than 2 months.

Again, this method WORKS, but if you’re looking for a faster approach to winning your ex back, I would highly suggest you download Second Chance Romance right now. It’s very inexpensive and I’m sure you’ll agree it’s worth every penny… and if it’s not… I’ll go ahead and give you a FULL refund. Cool?

Click Here To Download Second Chance Romance

As always, feel free to leave me some comments below!

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Comments

This is all very well and promises much as far as i t goes but without veriable testimonials that this works then why would anyone purchase your ebook?…peopel wnat to be assured that what you promote you can also provide proof for otherwis it is just another marketing scam.

Really great tips… a lot of people struggle with this.

Keep up the good work!

Awesome tips!

Keep up the good work.

Thank you for your many advice on relationships. It will go a long way in saving relationships.

Great advice. I already made every mistake at the beginning which is what actually broke us up. I know he has feelings for me. Now that he is actually dating another woman,(denile and rebound) how long do I wait to contact him? Wait for them to blow up or casually run into them when I am strong enough to deal?

By futbolfan on May 17th, 2010 at 12:53 am

I need major help with the no contact rule all i want to do is talk to her and win her back. What if she meats another guy in those two weeks like that what im worried about please help!

I need help in getting my ex to love me again. We live together still and he said he wants his freedom back. He works away for 2 weeks then comes home for one. What can i do to win him back?

i done all the things i shouldn t have done now he has another woman we been married 29 years looks like ill never get him back now

 

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