How To Win Your Ex Girlfriend Back – The First Step
Women have a completely different reason for leaving a relationship than men do. They will put up with a ton of crap and not even think about leaving a relationship as long as they feel ONE PRIMARY EMOTION.
And if they feel this one emotion…they are incredibly loyal! A rich and handsome multi-millionaire can pay them a great compliment…and of course they will be flattered…but they are not about to leave a man they love that makes them FEEL APPRECIATED.
Women want, need and crave APPRECIATION.
The most common remark and underlying message when women were asked in studies and polls on why they left a man was…
“He never appreciated anything I did for him!”
This means, when a woman stops feeling appreciated… your relationship is in BIG trouble.
A woman will not stay in a relationship if she feels that you do not appreciate her.
This is one of the underlying reasons why infidelity is so devastating to a woman…if you have had an affair…they immediately feel that YOU have ZERO appreciation for them…
To put it in simple terms, your girl is much more likely to fall prey to another man who comes in and shows her even the tiniest bit of appreciation.
If a woman has left you…your very first steps are to start letting her know that you APPRECIATE her.
But wait! Here’s a little WARNING…
Women seem to have a built in LIE DETECTOR and if you try to BS them, they WILL catch on! And if you do not do it correctly, you’re going to do more damage than you will good.
Also, a major mistake men make when trying to show their appreciation, is not understanding that men and women have VERY DIFFERENT WAYS OF KEEPING SCORE.
Basically, if you want to know how to win your ex girlfriend back…
You have to let her know that you appreciated and STILL DO appreciate her…
Here’s a little problem though… you can not just simply “tell her”. You have to know HER scoring system and how SHE keeps score.
These are actually really easy things to learn.
…And one of the absolutely best guides you will find on getting your girl back by showing and proving to her how much you appreciate her…is called Second Chance Romance.
In fact, you can have it right now and get started today because it is set up as an INSTANT DOWNLOAD. Go grab your copy of Second Chance Romance right now and it will be the best money you ever spend. Why? Because IT WORKS…PERIOD!
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Also, feel free to leave me some comments below! 
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I have been w/my wife married for 13 yr’ & together w/the woman of my dreams for 19
This is the same woman I’m talking about.
My seperation situation has been going on for as long as 2yr’.Do you think that there is still hope in having this woman & I get back together???
you are absolutely right about everything.My x is trying to get back with me right now and he had hurt me so much in the pass to where i can’t trust him at all.I was going to give it a try but just cant right now.I believe he have to prove him self to me.I will get your book I think it could be helpful for the near future in knowing how to deal with certain things.I will pass this on to the x thou.
Janson thank you for a great book. It is so hard to go into no contact and give that space when you love your lady so much. The book is so helpful in understanding what I should be and do. I amy praying this will work and I get her back. I never had the problem above of not appericating her she knew this and it was not cheating either. I just did something stupid that upset her and she just put a wall up of trust. LIke her son said we only do stupid stuff when we are apart that hurts us both and when we are together everything is great. I hope I get this figured out. Thanks
i think youre right janson thats just got me thinking yea i do love her but she needs the space to sort her self out and not have me in her face 24 7 she said she just wants to be friends now but i love her i dont no what to do
What if your ex girlfriend has another guy , it’s going on 4 months , we have a 9 months old little girl. And I didn’t know what steps to take . Everything I was supposed to do according to your to the steps I did the opposite and now she totaly rejects me.
Ok here is my issue: I understand the concept behind the no contact and the whole reverse psychology. Stepping back and making my self unavailable is working. Rejection creates attraction Mmm? Here is my scenario: known her 3 weeks it went too fast. Instant attraction sleeping together after the third rendezvous, then a wonderful 2 week of various fun programs, sleeping together every second day etc. One Friday she says I have a friends bday I will go with them to see a comedy show see you afterwards. That was the last time… since phonecals are returned in a short courteous way txt’s are answered in 3 kind words. Than a “sorry it went from hot to cold , but I got busy” where “Understood, let me know when you free up” was my answer. 2 week goes by – I stick to NC- than I “run” into her in a bar with a new guy… Played it cool had to take a couple of minutes, but after a drink, I got up went there said hi, introduced myself invited them to a party where I had a table reserved. I excused myself and went back to my buddy’s. Before she left she came over said goodbye. It was 4 days ago…
WHAT NOW ?????
I have been trying to get my ex-fiancee, mother of my child back for 6 months. I didn’t appreciate her. Now she says, “Its not impossible for us to get back together but right now I am not ready.” She used to tell me I was her soul mate. Now she couldn’t seem to care less. Should I give up?
Hey guys. I have a rather unique situation. My girlfriend of 4.5 years who lived with me went to australia for 2 months. Before she left and when she got there she professed her love for me. Half way through her trip she emailed me and told me she met someone and has moved on. She’s back in ywo weeks and everything she owns is at my house. I don’t feel any book can help???? She’s 27 I’m 44 but we had a lot of love.
HELP
hai JANSON,i read your letter and all is true.in my case i loved her very much,i spend lots of money to her by clothes,gold ect,ect at last she let me alone without money.now i am living alone in a place where recover people who used drug,alkohole.this is a klinic.but very nice place helping to them.i feel i am not alone.but i am waiting to her to give her a good reply.she must know that i am a good person.
Hi Jason,thanks for the e-mail.I have not gotten a copy of your book yet,but i stopped doing some of the things(mistakes)u stated and i am begining to see some signs of her wanting to have me around as we use to and i am very happy with that.My only problem is if she really wants me back which i dont want to ask her now(i feel its too early to ask her).
I really appriciate ur true advice,it strengthen my heart to be stronger n sronger!i wonder the world of men n woman relationships how they similar wherver they come from,black or white,east or west!now am thankin u to the maximam,cause now am some one else on my relationship knowing alot to build,would like to have a book of hw to win my x back.
Janson, thanks alot for the tips. would you pls give me tips on how to keep my man and our relationship healthy
I hear what everyone is saying… But to be honest I am concerned that just reading a book isn’t going to help… Can someone please give me some feed back. I’d love to hear from some guys out there who lost the love of their life as to if this really helps. Because I want my ex back very bad, and will do anything for her and to win her back, but right now she doesn’t even want to speak to me. The nicer I am the more it pushes her away… Please, let me know what your experiences are?
Hi Jason
Thanks for the advise and its true what you said i had been with my gf for 4 years and she thinks that i never apreciated her and we always use to fight it has been a year now since we have split up and she is with another man and they are thinking of getting married i just wanted to know would the second chance romance work for me as am a muslim guy who really wants to get his ex gf back
Please Jason do reply back as i dont want to loose her forever and i really hope the book does help but i just wanted advise from you before buying the book.
Thank you
Hey me and my girlfriend of two years just broke up and im dyin here and she says she cannot give me anymore chances what should i do?
Me an my girl broke up about 7 month ago. She started seeing somebody that she likes very much. That hurt me bad!! But I took the time to make myself a better person and she started dating.. I missed her alot and would to get her back and we have a son. She not with that over guy, and she was willing to hangout again to see how she feels around me again.. But she’s hot and cold. She still cares about our relationship but is scared that things will never change.. But I truley believe it will and things will get better.. She just don’t give me rime to show her.. So what do I do?!!
Okay, me and my love, just broke up about 2 weeks ago. We have been going out for 2 and a half years. I purposed to her, and she said yes then about 6 months later she’s wanting to call it quits. Im taking to heart and putting them into practice, but I dont get it. shes not showing the least bit of interest at all, am I doing something wrong?
Me and my ex have been together for 2.5 years. She leavt me and tolled me thst the reason she was leaving is because of me, she said thst I didn’t make her happy that I didn’t trust her. She used to lie to me alot because of her friends. They know that she loves me and they know that we are happy together. She was the only one out of her friends who hads guy. Now we are broken up and she is with get friends all the time. She tolled me u hope I realise I made a mistake in the future, hope u will take me back. Her friends influence her a lot. She lied to me slot and I didn’t trust her but I loved her so much and ik she loved me to, we where a great couple, but her friends where does ppl who love to meet other guys and not care what any one saids. Ik that my gf loves and ares about me, she leavt me in da blue out of nowhere. I feel she is scared to call me she even tolled me, if we get back together, know one of them can know. Her friends mean now more to her then I do. WHAT SHOULD I DO? IS SHE GONNA COME BACK.She is happy when I am around because I can tell. What can I do? Why did she leave?
ive been seperate from ex 3nhalf years now but face contact for we have kids together, i left him coz i had enough of him along with the lies and cheating, but we was all emotionally atached including 2 children i had in previous relationship. i then moved on and met someone else and had another child which broke ex’s heart and then after i realised i still loved him and was dying to be with him again , he now has had another child with a new partner but not inlove with her and he still wants me but so much has happened invloving his family, which he caused wen i broke his heart, we often talk and still make love but i feel im being used and feel im getting closer and closer to him for he tells me and opens up to me now where as before he never done, i want to let go but i want him also, he does not live with current woman and deals with her for whatever reason. i need help in understanding this situation, theres more to it.
My girlfriend of two and a half years just broke up with me and said she just can’t wait for me anymore. Said she’s relieved were through. It tore my heart through my throat. Three days later asked me to breakfast. I said, sure but if it was just a casual get together as “friends” then I was not interested. She said, it’s not a “were thru” meeting, just as friends, no pressure. She accused me of cheating( coworkers said I was sleeping with them – totally 100% untrue) after the breakfast, she hugged me, cried in my chest, gave me a kiss. I haven’t heard from her Now in three days / although I’m not initiating any contact, I’m really scared she will start losing her feelings for me. What the hell do I do?????
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